Quick Dip: How Can I Help Swimming Feel Safe and Welcoming for Everyone?
A short read for the car journey
Category: Safety & Support | Read time: Under 2 minutes
Think about arriving at training when you do not know anyone. Someone saying hello, learning your name and showing you where to put your kit can make joining in easier.
You can do that for another swimmer. At a meet, make room in the team area and invite them into the conversation. Give them the choice to join without putting them on the spot.
Pay attention to how your words affect others. Avoid teasing about someone’s body, background, disability or swimming ability. Other people laughing does not mean the person being teased finds it funny.
If someone asks you to stop, stop. If you have upset them, apologise and change what you are doing.
Respect personal space and belongings. Ask before borrowing kit and give others privacy when changing.
If someone is being picked on, you can help without joining an argument. Do not join in or pass on hurtful messages. You could sit with them and offer to go together to a coach, Team Manager or another trusted adult.
If a friend tells you something worrying, listen. If someone may be hurt or unsafe, tell a trusted adult, even if your friend asks you to keep it secret. Adults are responsible for taking action.
You do not have to be close friends with everyone to treat them kindly and include them.
Ask your coach: What would help a new swimmer feel welcome in our squad?
Created by Basingstoke Bluefins Coaching Team

